living, supporting and offering understanding for someone with chrons
by Polly Cleary
My partner is 27 and has Chrons disease, he had an operation last year to remove part of his bowel that had ulcers on but recently we have found out that the ulcers have come back in the same place.
For the last 3 weeks my partner has become increasingly angry with everything around him, including me. Our relationship is a healthy one, with frienship, laughter, good sex and lots of love buut lately he seems so angry and it feels like i am getting the blame for it as he verbally tears apart our relationship and everything that i believe we have.
We have been here before (been together for over 3 years) and each time he apologiges and retracts what he has said but its weighing heavy in my heart now and i need to know if there is anyone out there with chrons are living with someone with chrons who can relate to this? And if so, if they have any advice for me.
Thanks - polly, desperately trying to understand