I know about the insurance problem and the SS disabliity. I have been working on my case for almost 3 years. You need to see if she can get in to the section 8 program or housing for a place to live. Check with your VFW or your Shriners to help with her medical. I haven't got that for but I am almost. You work so hard to get some were and you are hit with a illness that you can not controll and you become depress and you are not wanting to help your own self. You are a good friend. I will keep her in my prayers.